If you have a big argument with your best friend what is your solution?

[24Piyathida020ผู้ช่วยศาสตราจารย์]

I used to have a big argument with my friends when I was in grade 8, and it was very hard time for me. My solution was I apologize to her first even it’s not my fault. Then we discuss about why we have an argument with each other and the answer is we just misunderstood something. Even when the time passed, we still awkward with each other. I think her and I can’t be best friends anymore. The argument won’t start if she asked me first and yes, time fly but all of the problem it’s still stuck in my mind.

Piyathida 020 2EN

[32Sarunporn034ผู้ช่วยศาสตราจารย์]

This was the real thing when I was in high school. I had a big argument with my best friend. I can remember we were not talking to each other for three days. It was very bad. We tried to talk and say sorry, and then everything was found.

Sarunporn 034 3EN

[31Khampeeraphan003ผู้ช่วยศาสตราจารย์]

I think if I have an argument with my friends it’s mean I can’t be patient anymore. If that argument is my false I will apologize them, and communicate with each other and aak for pardoned. In contrast, if It’s not my false, I’ll still keep quiet and no saying anything. I’ll consider about the main point why we have an argument. I’ll let my friends apologize me first.

Khampeeraphan 003 3EN

[24Pimthong022ผู้ช่วยศาสตราจารย์]

I once have a big argument with my friend, and the way I solved the problem was running away from it. I learnt from that a lot about life that when I have problems the thing I should do is talk with them not running away. If I have problems now, I will talk and solve it by myself. Moreover, I will apologize them sincerely if I am wrong.

Pimthong 022 2EN

[23Kanyawee037ผู้ช่วยศาสตราจารย์]

I had a problem with a close friend in high school. The choice I made at that time was to let others know the truth, stay quiet, not show that I was angry, but deep down I was very sad. Eventually, that friend came to talk to me and asked for a chance to be friends again, but I rejected her immediately because I could not feel the same way about her anymore.

Kanyawee 037 2EN

[23Somphida033ผู้ช่วยศาสตราจารย์]

If I have a big argument with my best friend I will talk with her directly. Actually, It’s quite hard because we will quite not talk together. Another way request other friends help us to talk. I had an experience but not big problem, I put my differences aside and hug her. It’s happy ending, me and my friend stopped argument.

Somphida 033 2EN

[24Wilasinee058ครูเชี่ยวชาญพิเศษ]

If I have an argument with best friend, my solution is to reflect on what I said that made them feel bad and start by apologising. And listen to friend's feelings and perspective. Try to understand friend's feelings without interrupting or getting defensive. Listening makes friend feel important.

Wilasinee 058 2EN

[32Sunisa038ผู้ช่วยศาสตราจารย์]

I'm the person who can't stand the discomfort situation so I try to solve the conflict by communicating. But the problem is the way I talk is too direct, quite rude sometime. Instead of solving the conflict between my friend, it's even make the more conflict between us. So I lost my favor friend because we never find the way to compromise.

Sunisa 038 3EN

[32Neeranuch050ผู้ช่วยศาสตราจารย์]

If I have a big argument with a friend, if I know I'm in the wrong I will apologize to her. Let's talk together to find a solution. Let's understand each other. But if it doesn't work I just don't know what to do. I can only let it go. Everyone knows themselves. Please examine yourself carefully.

Neeranuch 050 3EN